Love, that funny thing in the air

After reading, taking the test and looking at the people I know, I believe the different leaves of love addicts come from ones self esteem. Because if you have a high since of self esteem you don't need others to complete you. People are drawn towards other people with a high since of self esteem, thus others will always flock to you, so you never have the need to seek them out your self. All one, with high self esteem, has to do is to simply is just smile and get to know the ones who are brave enough to say hi to you in the first place. Also people with high self esteem don't tend to be shot down as far as those with lower self esteem. For instances if a person with a high self esteem gets shot down at the bar he/she usually looks at the situation under this short of light: "he/she is a jerk neck and isn't worth my time any ways" typically those with a high seance of  self, know how not to let them selfs down/don't allow others to take them down. As some one with low self esteem would look at same situation and probably thing along the lines: "what's wrong with me?""he/she is better, I'm to skinny/fat, tall/small, ect..."
And with saying people who have a low self esteem tend to be more "needy" to say, Bruce they feel that if they are abandon there is no more hope. So when they do get hooked up with some one else, they feel important and it gives them that super human boost and acting like a drug upon their body.

From just looking at my friends and seeing how they react differently is mostly where I take this idea from. Again I will say I'm a life guard, Ive been a year round swimmer all of my life, so I can say I know MANY people with a high self esteem(you sorta have to be, to be able to run around in a speedo/skin tight racing suit, because they show sooo much of your body to the world, that you have to be confident in your self, body and proformance or you will crumble from those around you) and with every group, there are always a few who arnt confident, but the way these two different type of people react to love is intently different. The confident high self esteem person, they tend to be confident to stay in love and love truly while the relationship is going on, so they have no need to be supper beggie and trust their partner to go out. And the low self esteem persons seems to constantly trying to prove that he/she is worthy and they tend to act more desperate... Like a person who is addicted to other things, be it caffeine, drugs, or other stuff.

And that is my view on love additions :)
-dani