im a bad bad putty cat.....Apparently?

After taking the quiz, I scored a 5. I didnt think it was that bad until the quiz informed me that I show signs of being abusive. I never have struck a woman in anger but I do acknowledge that I at times can be dismissive of my girlfriends opinions and absolutely scare every single person that gets in a car with me. After that question, I have to say that it was a loaded question; some people genuinely are bad drivers, and I admit that I am one of them. I must admit proudly though that I am not one of those guys that looks into a womans phone or into their computer to get dirt on them or to just be nosey. I do believe that you are more respected when the other person comes clean about anything they are involved in. As to why violence is up in dating relationships is beyond me? I would like to think that it isnt but according to the statistics; Apparently, it is up. I think if more people took time to set aside time for their significant other then alot of problems would resolve themselves. I see alot of violence in my job and from what I see, over half is alcohol related. I know that I need to be a better listener...