cheating; whats the difference with networking?

All thing being equal, I have had many many animated conversations with either my spouse at the time or a girlfriend or my wife to be.. People wanna define everything in our World. Seriously, I have seen woman called Hoes for being bubbly and outgoing, and I have heard men called scoundrels for asking a waitress what she recommended on the menu in a brief moment of down to earth reality... However, just as the saying in the housing market: Location,Location,Location.. I to feel its about Opportunity,Opportunity,Opportunity....just as chemistry happens like lightening in a bottle at times, so to can someone click with us on a personal level even if its for a brief moment in passing. It typically wouldnt mean diddley to a man or woman if their significant other was present,but you take that same individual and place stressors on them like those on the reality show, TEMPTATION ISLAND, and half my classmates or more would be coming back to the mainland either single or with someone different all together. Peoples experiences in their life gives them a full cup of reality and todays generational twenty year olds are far more knowledgeable than I weas at their age. I commend them all and hope only with experience and a sense of moral empathy they can realize that relationships are built, they dont start as lasting as we see in Sundays Newspaper Announcements of fifty and more years being married without someone saying "Sorry" first.