Just move on with life

Maybe it's just me, but after a break up, yeah I'm sad but I don't really play any tug of war with my ex, if he left me(or i left him) he isn't meant to be in the big picture anyways, so it's time to look forward and move on. Grant it, I've had very few relationships, mostly cause I believe dating is ment for finding that perfect person, so for me, if I can't be best friends with them before hand, I won't get in a relationship With them, and we'll just stay close friends. Which is awesome too. But from my past history, I find that just moving forward is the best thing, get involved with your friends more, learn a new sport/hobby/thing and don't allow your self to all lost on them. They don't like you, they arnt worth your time and effort then. :)